Wednesday, March 31, 2010

How does money influence emotions?


How does money influence emotions?
Money always plays an important role in the life of everyone and consequently influences everyone’s emotions. From my own experience I would say that money can influence our emotions in three different ways: positive, negative, and neutral.

Usually we get positive emotions when we either receive money or spend money. People get their salaries, dividends from stocks, royalties and sometimes even inheritance, but always the very moment of acquiring money affects our emotions in a positive way. We feel happy. We are full of energy. We become more optimistic and self-confident.
On the other hand when people lose money they become depressed, weak and pessimistic. The interesting thing is that spending money produces positive emotions at the moment of purchase, but later if spending wasn’t satisfying emotions change vector and the spender becomes depressed.

It might sound quite strange but some people are emotionally neutral to the fact of losing or gaining money. Who are these people? They are people who either work with other people’s money or have special training. People who are working with other people’s money are ordinary people, accountants, brokers, cashiers, etc… However, people that specially trained their brains aren’t ordinary. Usually they are self-made rich people. Why would a rich person push himself to be emotionless when dealing with money? Well, first of all one of the requirements for anyone who wants to build wealth is to be able to be calm both at the time of gain and loss. For example, if a person spends way too much at the department store because shopping produces positive emotions they won’t be able to save and invest enough. Another reason to be emotionally neutral when dealing with money is that rich people have financial plans of how to be rich or be richer and they have to follow these plans whatever their emotions are. Finally, if you can rule your emotions, you can rule your money!

-O.

I think this idea of money neutral also ties in with being able to delay rewards and see the big picture. Financially successful people can delay the good feeling received from spending money because they see the greater possibilities. One of the points you made was that the positive emotions are produced at the time of purchase. These feelings tend not to last long. Financially successful people can see past this short term quick gratification and work towards a greater reward down the road.

Control Emotions by Pretending

Our emotional state influences us a lot more than we might like. I think as most of us know, if we are happy and motivated we get a lot more done than if we are bored, lazy or depressed. If we are confident and secure we can often make better decisions then when we are controlled by fear or nervousness.

One of the best ways to change our emotional state is to pretend we already feel the way we want to feel. So if you are feeling bored or unmotivated, simply pretend that you are incredibly driven and really motivated to get going. If you are feeling unhappy, then just pretend you are happy and it will start to change.

A study was conducted where there were two sets of participants. The first set of participants was asked to relive a particularly stressful situation. The other set was asked to simply make a facial expression that would display stress. Amazingly, both groups showed the same changes in body temperature and heart rate, which indicated emotional response.

This shows us that our emotions can actually be influenced and even completely changed just by changing our facial expressions. So, if you want to feel better, just start laughing and smiling. Try it for a minute, right now.

I’m sure you noticed, as I did, that you felt a bit happier and more excited just by smiling and laughing. This works on a small scale for happiness, but this tendency for our emotions to be controlled by our physiology and actions extends even further. By pretending like we are confident, motivated or happy, we can literally create those emotions within us.

A lousy emotional state does not need to be long lasting. While using a technique such as this cannot solve your problems, it can give you the emotional motivation and supportive mindset so you can find those solutions.

A key to this technique working is you have to be willing to feel a little silly at first. Smiling and laughing when we feel lousy or walking around with our head up when we feel nervous often feels awkward at first. However, if you can stick with it, in a short time your emotions will start to adjust to the physiology you are displaying.

This technique of pretending can be extended to more than just emotional control. If you’ve been having trouble motivating yourself to start working on a task or chore, simply start doing it. Once you start doing it, use this technique to put yourself into a state of confidence, ease or happiness. Do this and you will find it is far easier to work on a task that you normally find boring or stressful.

Once you have aligned your physiology with how you want to feel, the next step is to align all of your actions with how you want to feel. If you lack confidence in a certain situation, once you have adopted a physiology that you associate with feeling confident, then make sure all of the actions you take are actions you would associate with that feeling of confidence.

If you are about to start a new goal or project, once you have put your physiology into a state of focus and motivation begin taking the immediate actions you would if you were in that state. Begin working on the project immediately and take steps towards it. Even if you aren’t quite sure what to do, changing your physiology and then your actions will rapidly create the emotional state you need internally.

One of the worst parts about a bad emotional state, is it changes how we make decisions. When we are feeling lazy, depressed or fearful, it is easy to believe that our emotions are the result of good rational judgement. Unfortunately we often realize how wrong we are once the emotional state passes.

In situations like that, it is usually best to make changing our state to be more positive should be our first priority. Whenever we are feeling depressed, angry or lazy, changing our state to a more neutral area will give us greater access to our problem solving skills. As long as we are in that bad emotional state, it is hard to solve the problems that got us there in the first place.

Realizing that our internal emotions, motivation, courage, happiness, are completely under our control is the start of achieving that control. As long as you believe that something good must happen in order for you to start feeling happy, it will be impossible for you to change your state. As long as you believe that you need some outside stimulus to become motivated about a goal or project, it will be very hard to create that motivation.

So, if you are having trouble controlling a particular emotion, start by changing your physiology. If you want to be happy, start smiling and laughing. If you want to be motivated stand or sit up straight and begin moving faster. Changing your physiology is the first step.

After you’ve changed your physiology, start changing your actions immediately. If you want to feel motivated, start working on your goal or project immediately. By changing your actions you can create a longer lasting emotional change that can’t be created just by changing your physiology.

While negative emotions are far more likely to cripple us, it is possible to get into such a positive state that we start ignoring our problems. In those situations you are just as disabled to taking effective action as you are when you are in a really negative emotional state. Try to use this technique to bring yourself to a positive, yet manageable state. Once you get to this state, begin focusing immediately on solutions for your problem at hand.

The key to knowing whether you are at the correct balance of positivity to solve your problem is if you are taking effective action to solve it. If you aren’t taking action, then you need to change your state so that you will. While too much positivity can be dangerous, the risks of that happening are far less then a crippling negative state.

Controlling our emotions can sometimes be a difficult process. By pretending, first in our physiology then in our actions, we can gain a lot more of that control.

Ivana Tasev, photographer of silence, emotions and details




Ivana Tasev
is a journalist by profession and vocation. For more than 12 years she works in the printed media, and in the last 6 years she is employed in the highest circulation weekly in Macedonia, “Tea Moderna”. She writes articles and interviews related to the art and cultural life in her country and the world. Sometimes she feels that the language is too constrained or limited to express certain delicate emotion. Therefore, where her words end, she continues her expression through photography.



For her it is a terrific hedonism, especially since it is not her primary profession. It means that she does not feel it as a daily duty, or, god forbid, as a burden; instead, she enjoys it, she gives it a chance to challenge her. It is more of a passion, need to express herself fully. Her photography is not so polished and glazed, even less aesthetically flawless commercially. It is, indeed, rough, somehow the very grain which she adore in photography, gives it a “vintage’ timeless artistic note. She is a self-taught photographer. It all started by chance. In 1999 she had a camera within her hand’s reach and she wanted to use it to freeze/capture the sunset, which she watched from a mountain, and a host of paragliders in the sky, hanging like lanterns.



She still consider that photograph one of her best, and this is how it all started. She makes her photographs on the principle of instinct and emotion, and probably relys mostly on her intuition. She has always been fascinated by details, not in photography only, but in life, generally. As the small, and yet so amazing things that Amelie Poulain liked to do when she was little. Such ordinary things, that almost no-one pays attention to, and yet they are here, in front of us. Such fragments, which pass unnoticed by most of the people, draw her attention. Such depth, minunciosity, level of details, fragmentariness are registered by her emotion.




For instance”, she says, “when in a studio recording, I catch David Sylvian inhaling between two verses, when I catch an extra in an expensive production in a mass scene being very much aware of the camera and unable to hide their excitement of being filmed; when in a smoky nightclub I notice a lover discretely touching the palm of his loved one …«

»I don’t know, even more minute details, the nose of a certain person, which gives lucidity to his expression; the way in which he holds the cigarette, twists hair between the fingers, nibbles on the lower lip, wrinkles the forehead, crosses the legs … the way in which someone’s body posture transforms depending on how pumped it is in (lack of) self-confidence




I really love black and white reflections, mirror images in the water, trees full of silence, thoughtful and emotional photographs, half empty, simple, unpretentious, shadows, silhouettes, contrasts, huge artistic grain in the photography, vintage looking, so that you could not gauge when the photograph was made; mistakes in the lighting, burnt contrasts, blurred, works that rebelliously overstep the boundaries of the traditional school of photography, I love works created by the heart, and not the proper exposure and composition. There is a lot of silence in my photographs, partially emptiness as well, lack of presence. My photographer’s emotion, as it matures, mostly unintentionally and unconsciously rather than in a planned fashion or calculated, tries to step on the path of some noble simplicity, revisiting the natural, the essential. What Chekhov often writes about between the lines. Or what David Sylvian sings about. I am a follower or maybe better, I am a humble worshiper of such emotion. I dislike pretentiousness and megalomania in the photography and also in life. I don’t want grand ambitiousness, which makes you and arrogant, vain and popular photographer. I dislike a photography staged to perfection, sensationalist, which makes you turn to it on the first glance and say “woooow ”, and then on the second glance start thinking why have you turned, when it looks like an overdressed girl with her eye on the marriage, whose quantity and strength of perfume makes sinuses strain; a coquette, with war paint visible from the moon. And actually, such are the times we live in, illustrate with glaring colors, with tons of computer make-up. This is why most want to create megalomaniac photographs. I have no such ambitions. But most of all, I am fascinated by the people in all their humanity, fragility, superiority, frustration, beauty, sensitivity. I want to photograph them dresses, half-nude, nude, depending on the inspiration of the moment. What I do not like is glazed (sugar-coated) photograph, modern, sterile, impotent, technically perfect, and still empty. Love in itself is my driving force in the creation. However pathetic and disappointing it may sound, for these shallow and promiscuous times full of lies. While I am writing this text, a fantastic video clip catches my attention. In Ohrid, by the lake, they ask two Roma, adolescents, how they imagine LOVE. One of them says : “Through the heart”. This is it: through the heart





Thus far she has had eight solo exhibitions. Five in Skopje, one in London, Great Britain, one in Berlin, Germany, and one in Novi Sad, Serbia. This year Ivana Tasev will exhibit in Maribor, Slovenia, mid-September.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Money can’t buy love! Here are 7 vital signs that you tend to ignore

Do you remember the song by Beatles?

“….I’ll buy you a diamond ring my friend if it makes you feel alright,
I’ll get you anything my friend if it makes you feel alright
‘Cause I don’t care too much for money, money can’t buy me love”.

Are you in love but torn by money? You must be having tip offs with your better half? Love often seems to be attacked by the terrible money syndrome. Money is a sweet sensation and can buy anything material. But can it buy love for you? Know those vital tell-tale signs and let love reign in your hearts.




* Vital sign 1: For couples, money and sex are the only reasons for stress and estrangement. For those who have tied the knot, one person is in charge of the finances and the other one has no knowledge of the money being spent. At the end of the month, when it is time for a review, couples end up accusing each other for overspending. So as a first step, start sharing everything including money matters. Stop escaping from your responsibilities and instead of blaming each other, sort out ways to pull back the reigns of your household expenses. This will reduce arguments.
* Vital sign 2: The most common rift that takes place is due to different spending habits of two people in love. This is natural. Two individuals hail from different backgrounds and may have different spending habits. Only love is the common factor that binds them. It can be so that while you are enjoying a weekend golf, your partner is busy making efforts to consolidate debts to pay off arrears that you both have incurred. So in that case, the one who is enjoying golf must rush to support the other one in paying off debts. You need to sit together and sort out your priorities when it comes to expenditure. Talk it out. Help your partner to clear debts rather than piling them up.
* Vital sign 3: Most couples suffer from the very common “why” syndrome. For every little thing that they do or want to do, they ask each other “why”. It may be so that the lady might want to have a nice haircut at a posh salon but the man might ask “why”. At the same time the man might want to have a drink with his colleagues and the lady might ask “why”. From this stems up another tassel. So why keep a space for this irritating “why”? When you both are planning a household budget to regulate your expenses, make sure you keep aside some amount for both of you separately. If you want you can spend independently without having to give any explanation for your desires. It is important for you to understand that people may have different demands. Respect and love each other just the way you are. Ruth Hayden, author of “For Richer, Not Poorer: The Money Book for Couples,” thinks that the right choice is to avoid conflict by keeping some accounts separate. His idea echoes, “You should have some autonomy money, I should have some autonomy money, and we need to learn how to practice being a couple together with our money.”
* Vital sign 4: The most challenging situation for a married couple comes when they have to deal with a monetary crisis. No matter how much you try to control your spending, life is unpredictable. There can be a rush hour when you might have to pay for high medical or maternity charges, car repair, mortgage and many other unanticipated situations. But why so? How can money take over your love? Start maintaining an emergency fund. So both of you can decide how much you can contribute. Make sure this amount is directly proportionate to your respective income.
* Vital sign 5: Are you throwing tantrums at each other regarding a big purchase? If you are thinking about buying something big such as a house or a car, first check the agreement level. It can be that you want your partner to contribute whereas he/she cannot. So why not give some time? Postpone the idea and let the other person settle down with finances.
* Vital sign 6: If you are in love, you must be honest with each other. Lack of integrity is another vital sign that leads to a financial crisis followed by a charged up emotional battlefield. Credit cards are one of the most used financial accessories. Whenever you go for shopping, you usually swipe cards. But are you swiping your partner’s card without his/her knowledge? Stop doing this. Even if you are spending, let your partner know about this. It happens that you keep on swiping cards and at the end of the month when your partner discovers this, it is kind of shocking. This instantly makes way for a big challenge. If you feel you cannot control your temptations, start communicating. Don’t let your partner get disillusioned. It is important to be transparent. Divulge all that you are doing so that nothing is hidden between you two.
* Vital sign 7: Couples suffer from another complex-“I am right”. Usually the one who earns more tries to gain an upper hand. So any kind of advice from the one who earns less gets unheard. If you want to be happy, be a good listener. It is very important that you start respecting each other’s views. Since you earn more, it is not necessary that you are making the right decision. Your partner may have a strong say since you both are connected by love. Discuss problems and sort out solutions that would ensure your conjugal well being.

Well known therapist and author of “Overcoming Overspending: A Winning Plan for Spenders and Their Partners’, Olivia Mellan says, “people with different spending attitudes tend to “polarize” when they become a couple”. So the basic idea is to give a conscious effort towards a mutual consonance. If you think digging your head in the sand will drive away your problems, you are not thinking it right. Take the initiative to ward off these issues. Now you know a few vital signs. What next? Act on it. Knowledge is power but actions always speak louder than words as the adage goes. Realize the priority of love over money and don’t let money ruin your happiness.

Monday, March 29, 2010

Summer of Love Exhibit at the Whitney – A short review


The Summer of Love: Art of the Psychedelic Era exhibition at the Whitney Museum features a series of work from the 1960’s through 1970’s; the artists that range from Andy Warhol to Lucas Samaras. Work from this era are characterized as being a direct reaction to popular culture and instead of art being an activity only to be performed by (and for) the elite, art was created by people from all walks of life. Two pieces of work, both by Abdul Mati Klarwein, demonstrated not only the new wave of art that focused on every aspect of popular culture, but his work also touches on the rise of consumerism and how it affected old conventions of society.

The first piece, The Aleph Sanctuary, was originally a 3×3 meter, metallic cube which contained over sixty paintings1; each piece arranged to resemble the more famous Sistine Chapel by Michelangelo. The deliberate religious architecture behind Klarwein’s sanctuary seems to belittle the Christian institution by rendering the monumental church in a minimalistic manner. The small size of the Aleph Sanctuary can serve as representation of the church’s quickly shrinking influence. The younger generation was no longer restricted to finding happiness through God and the church, but through any means necessary. The pursuits of happiness of this generation ranged from the explosion of consumerism to the use of drugs and excess alcohol.

The original Aleph Sanctuary features a series of paintings that lined its walls1, each depicting scenes that characterized pop culture in the 1960’s and 70’s; however, the most ‘Pop’ artwork inside the sanctuary was the “Grain of Sand” (also by Klarwein). This painting depicts sexual themes, consumerism, racial equality, civil unrest, and the psychedelic nature of the decade. Naked women are littered throughout the entire painting; however unlike the roof of the Sistine Chapel, women of both races are depicted. Women and men of color replace the white religious figures and the Caucasian female on the upper-left quadrant of the painting is shown with red skin and green eyes; immediately this colorization seems to give of the connotation of evil. This is a complete upheaval of society’s current attitude towards different races.

The entire painting is a surreal landscape where fashion and luxury are intertwined; these two elements relating to the heavy consumerism and the rush to be at the top of the market, both as consumer and producer. The painting seems to say that everyone who is a consumer is entitled to these luxuries. The vibrant colors of the painting overall represented the ‘life’ and energy of the decade. The youth was blooming, taking action in everything they could get their hands on. This wasn’t limited to drugs, but it also included activism against the government and environmental issues. These two pieces of art by Mati Klarwein, are the best examples of Pop artwork during the 1960’s, each demonstrating the mainstream culture during the period and the events that shaped the artwork.

Afghan Girl Optical Illusion


Probably all of you saw this picture at some point of your life. Titled the “Afghan Girl”, this photo was named the most recognized photograph in the history of National Geographic. Although girl’s name was not known, her picture appeared on the June 1985 cover of the magazine. The image of her face, with a red scarf draped loosely over her head and with her piercing sea-green eyes staring directly into the camera, became a symbol both of the 1980s Afghan conflict and of the refugee situation worldwide. Gula was known throughout the world simply as the Afghan Girl until she was formally identified in early 2002.

Over time, many variations of Steve McCurry’s original photo appeared. At some point even in optical illusion form, as we see below. All I could find about this illusion, is that people can’t seem to look at it for too long. Apparently you get a headache, or become nervous at best. Maybe this isn’t the true nature of this illusion, but it just didn’t make me hallucinate like some other animations did. Wait few seconds for the animation to load (it’s 1MB big), and share your experience afterward

Love Never Dies

The sequel to The Phantom of the Opera has been a regular topic of conversation for musical theatre fans for some time, and has been billed as the show to see this year.



It’s with no little fanfare that Love Never Dies finally opens.





Set in 1907, a decade after Phantom, a mysterious businessman invites Christine Daaé to perform at Phantasma, a new attraction in New York’s Coney Island. With her husband Raoul and son Gustave in tow, she journeys to America, unaware that it is the Phantom who has arranged her appearance.

Since it opened in 1986, The Phantom of the Opera has become one of the most successful pieces of entertainment ever created, but can Love Never Dies replicate its success?

If the fabulous staging is anything to go by, then yes, and then some. From the opening scene, with its forced perspective set, faded posters and generally unsettling atmosphere, it’s up there with the best.

Director Jack O’Brien has also made excellent use of multimedia projection, something which in other shows looks desperate and can often fall way short of the mark. In this case, however, the money spent on the effect is up on stage for all to see and the 21st century technology places you right in the middle of early 20th Century New York as a rundown Coney Island is brought back to life in vibrant, sparkling fashion.

The projection also allows for economical use of the set; sparse (though no less grand) pieces of stage furniture are combined with contextual imagery to create convincing environments.

O’Brien has a fantastic box of tricks at his disposal, and he makes full use of them, especially when he subtly integrates the Adelphi’s stage revolve while deftly sidestepping the accusations of gratuitousness that have dogged other productions. It never feels intrusive or gimmicky, and gives scenes a depth and cinematic quality that pull the audience in. The best example of this is during Christine’s big number; with the seraphic singer on the Coney Island stage, Raoul and the Phantom stand in opposite sides of the wings, each battling for her affections. What could be a fairly pedestrian moment is transformed into something truly mesmerising by the stage turning and forcing focus onto the different players.

Sierra Boggess as Christine has the serene beauty you expect, and her voice is incredible. However, the stand-out female in Love Never Dies is Summer Strallen as Meg Giry. Now a brassy, yet damaged, showgirl, Strallen gives Meg a tangible personality, brimming with humour and fragility.

Ramin Karimloo is evidently comfortable as the Phantom, having starred as the masked man in the original show at Her Majesty’s Theatre, but once again, the most impressive male isn’t the lead. Rather it is Joseph Millson as Raoul who gives Christine’s husband a believably bitter world-weariness and palpable hatred of his rival.

So, back to the original question. Can Love Never Dies match the success of Phantom? It seems unlikely. While the staging and casting are as good as any you’ll encounter elsewhere in the West End, the songs and story are sadly lacking.

While The Phantom of the Opera’s story isn’t particularly gripping, it has some of the best music to have ever graced the stage. Each tune is more memorable than the last and the melodies burrow into your brain, refusing to move for days. Love Never Dies however, has neither a strong story nor the sort of tunes that stay with you and encourage repeat viewings.

It’s not that the music is bad — there is worse out there in Theatreland — but it is not what we have come to expect from Andrew Lloyd Webber and certainly not what we, the audience, wanted from this long-gestating show.

Nonetheless, Love Never Dies is absolutely worth seeing. There are bound to be tweaks and improvements as the run progresses, and while there’s still money to be made, you can bet that Lord Lloyd Webber will make sure those changes happen.

The chances of it emulating its big brother and being with us in another 25 years are unlikely, but the West End’s latest musical deserves to be seen while it’s here.

Love Never Dies is the biggest thing to happen in theatre for years and anyone with a love of theatre will marvel at the exceptional staging and outstanding performances.

Love for the sake of Allah


Love for the sake of Allah” Although we’ve heard the phrase many times have we ever stopped to think what it truly means? Abu Hurayra reported that the Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said, “Allah Almighty will say on the Day of Rising, ‘Where are those who loved one another for the sake of My majesty? Today, on the day when there is no shade but My shade, I will shade them.’” [Muslim] The merit of the action is clear from the hadith but how do we go about loving someone purely for the sake of Allah? There are a many reasons why we would love someone; most of the time for some personal gain. When we love for the sake of Allah we love without expectation; we love simply because Allah (swt) decreed us to love. A love revolving around Allah (swt) forms and reaffirms the strongest of bonds and creates and builds the strongest of characters.

In order to love others for the sake of Allah (swt) we must first love Allah and his messenger above all else. Loving for the sake of Allah (swt) is the truest expression of Iman because it reflects the totality of submission to Allah’s decrees. Love becomes an act of worship. It generates a compassion within that compels you to help others purely to gain the pleasure of Allah (swt). Any act of charity strengthens that compassion. Islamic character is strengthened through this unselfish love. The poor, the sick, the oppressed are all reminders of the person you want to be because those in need present you with the opportunity to take action in order to develop into that person. Loving for the sake of Allah reminds you of the ultimate goal.

If every single one of us loved one another for the sake of Allah (swt) where would we as an Ummah be? If the desire to obtain the blessing of Allah (swt) through love was everyone’s goal the world would be different. The poor and needy wouldn’t be shunned. The helpless and oppressed wouldn’t be ignored. To love for the sake of Allah is to love for your brother what you would for yourself and to stand against anything less. The plight of those in need would grab hold of your heart as it would if you truly began to see them as brothers and sisters. Although we may not know each other and we may be separated by distance, we are all connected and united under the most important and eternal banner of Allah the All Mighty.

Kites Full Songs

Kites movie is the most anticipated movie of the year 2010. People have been waiting for a long time for Kites
Movie Songs. The Kites Film Songs starring the Indian hearthrob Hrithik Roshan and the Mexican beauty Barbara Mori is going to be accepted by both Indians as well as the rest of the world.Kites also stars Kangana Ranaut and Luce Rains. Kites mp3 songs are going to top the charts. Kites wallpapers have already been downloaded huge number of times.

Songs of Kites are supposed to be good and music is composed by Rajesh Roshan.











Two songs
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full songs

making it

ignore all possible concepts and possibilities ---
ignore Beethoven, the spider, the damnation of Faust ---
just make it, babe, make it:
a house a car a belly full of beans
pay your taxes
fuck
and if you can't fuck
copulate.
make money but don't work too
hard --- make somebody else pay to
make it --- and
don't smoke too much but drink enough to
relax, and
stay off the streets
wipe your ass real good
use a lot of toilet paper
it's bad manners to let people know you shit or
could smell like it
if you weren't
careful

One

One

I will not be written about in textbooks or studied in classes
Nothing large and ostentatious will be dedicated in my name
I will not make the front page when I visit a small town
My work will be worth the same amount when I die
But
If I can change one mind
Elicit one giggle
Start one discussion
Give one smile
Then every word I write is worthwhile

Quiet at the Library

As both books and classic red phone booths are becoming a thing of the past, a village in Somerset, England has merged the two rare commodities.


The bright red old phone booth was purchased for just 1 pound and remodeled as the smallest library in the world. Residents line up to swap their already read books for new ones left by other patrons. Over 100 books and a variety of movies and music CDs are available at this tiny library.








The 10 Greatest Apocalyptic Novels Of All Time

After scouring book reviews and Wikipedia, a list of the Top Ten Best Apocalyptic Novels was born. The books on this list take you down the darkest paths in uncivilized worlds, from cannibalistic gangs to vampire infected corpses. If this list doesn't get you thinking on the quickest way stock your basement full of water, canned goods and rifles, I don't know what will! Enjoy!



World War Z





Documenting the war on zombies, "World War Z" takes you through horific times with some of the most vivid writing this genre has ever seen. The book is told from a narative perspective of several different characters, sharing their versions of the Zombie war. The outbreak, which started somewhere in China, spread throught the world, causing distruction and chaos. While the zombies are never completely irradicated, some symblance of life does appear to go on, after an eventual move of the US Capital, several barriers against the undead, and millions of lives lost.

"World War Z" paints such a realistic picture of a world after Zombies that even skeptics would find themselves engrossed in the novel!

Blindness









Forget world wide pandemics of flesh eating bacteria or a zombie illness! Portugese author Jose Saramago took one of the most common afflictions, loss of sight, and turned it into my worst nightmare! in "Blindness", a mass epidemic of sight-loss sweeps an unidentified city, causing a break down in society, civilization, and everyday function. The books main characters band together, forming a family unit, comprised of a doctor and his wife and his patients. The wife has somehow been spared from the epidemic and helps the unit function. They are placed in an asylum where the infected are being contained, which eventually detiriorates to filth, due to everyone's lack of sight.

The family unit escapes and attempts to build a new life in the outside world, just as sight is returned, just as quickly as it was taken away.

I don't know who I felt worse for reading this book. The people who lost their sight, who began living in their own filth and scrounging for food, or the doctor's wife who had to take care of them all and see everything that was happening around her.

The Road










If you are a parent, or a person who doesn't wish harm upon children, you might find this book slightly disturbing. 'The Road' focuses on the journey of a father and son, after an unnamed apocalyptic event wipes out a majority of the earth's population, as well as the ability to grow plants. The father and son, only identified as the "Man" and the "Boy", are attempting to make it to the coast, to an undetermined hope. The pair encounter several disturbing sights along the way, including a cannibalistic "army", a baby roasting on a split, and humans who are being kept locked away and used for limb-harvesting (for food obviously).

There are some high points in the book, but overall, it paints a pretty grim picture. Towards the end of the novel, the father gets ill and dies, leaving the boy to be taken in by a couple who has been observing the pair for some time. It isn't a happy ending, but it does keep you from wanting to kill yourself!

The Postman



This post-apocalyptic novel is about a drifter who finds himself taking shelter in an abandoned postal van. Gordan Krantz, the protagonist, takes the uniform of a postman only to keep him warm, but when he begins carrying mail on his journey, he begins to restore hope to survivors. Eventually, Krantz encounters a small community led by Cyclops, an artificial intelligence created at Oregon State University
that managed to survive. Krantz learns however that the machine was destroyed and that it's appearance is being maintained by a group of scientists who are trying to "keep hope, order, and knowledge alive". Krantz eventually pairs up with the Cyclops scientists in their war against the hyper-survivalists, who have begun and extreme version of life.

By the end of the novel, the impression is given that the three groups rally together to help revive civilization.

Oryx and Crake










This novel begins after yet another collapse of civilization, with the protagonist, Snowman, living as a hermit. He lives near by a community of what he calls "Crakers", which appear to be strange human like creatures. It is revealed in the story that the crakers, as well as beasts like wolvogs, piggons, and rakunks, are the products of genetic engineering.

Through flashbacks, the reader learns that Snowman grew up as Jimmy in the mid-21st century. His parents were both scientists who lived in privileged compounds that separated them from commoners, or pleeblands. When Jimmy's family moves to a compound, he meets Glenn, or Crake as he is referred to through out the story. The boys play games, smoke weed, as well as other slightly disturbing activities such as watching live executions and child pornography.

Jimmy and Crake eventually become obsessed with a young asian girl they see in a child porn video. Jimmy seeks the girl out and eventually meets Oryx, who could be the same girl, but it is never clarified. Orxy becomes highly involved in the lives of both young men. As time goes on, Crake becomes a bio engineer while Jimmy focuses on the arts and literature.

Crake soon embarks on an endeavor to create peaceful human-like creatures which he calls Crakers. Crakers are leaf-eating herbivores who only have sex during a mating period, therefore eliminating several "human" disputes. Eventually, Crake releases a world wide virus, which wipes out a huge percentage of the population, except Jimmy, who was unknowingly vaccinated. Crake is soon painted as a "Mad Scientist", and eventually kills Oryx.

The reader is transported through out an incredible series of events and begins to feel sympathy towards all characters, including the "villain", Crake. The book ends leaving the reader wondering whether Snowman will return to life with humans, or continue to look after the Crakers, as he promised Oryx before she died.

A Canticle for Leibowitz








"A Canticle for Leibowitz" spans thousands of years set in a Roman Catholic monastery. After a devastating nuclear war, the novel follows along while civilization makes attempts at rebuilding itself. The monks of the Albertian Order of Leibowitz take on the mission of preserving and protecting the pieces of human's scientific knowledge until the world is ready for that kind of information again.

The apocalyptic event in this story is a backlash against advanced technology and knowledge. During a time that is referred to in the book as "simplification", any one who had any learning, and eventually anyone who could even read, was killed by angry mobs, with books being destroyed and illiteracy taking over the world.

Isaac Leibowitz had been a Jewish engineer working for the US Military, but converts to Catholicism and begins the Albertian Order. Their mission becomes to protect,memorize, and preserve any books, from before the Simplification. The novel is separated into three different parts, "Fiat Homo (Let There Be Man)", "Fiat Lux (Let There Be Light)", and "Fiat Voluntas Tua (Let Thy Will Be Done)".

The novel is an interesting look into what our world would become if communication, science, technological advances, and knowledge were suddenly cut off from every day people.



Alas, Babylon








Published in 1959, "Alas, Babylon" was one of the first post-apocalyptic novels of the nuclear age. The story focuses on the small town of Fort Repose, Florida and the effects that a nuclear war had on it. The protagonist, Randy Bragg, is a former Korean War vet who becomes a hero after the Soviet Union starts a nuclear war with the US. Several towns in Florida, including Jacksonville, Tampa and Miami are reported as being destroyed, leaving the citizens of Fort Repose to their own measures. Communication is limited, and the city is quickly emptied of money and supplies. People in the town quickly learn how to survive, with Bragg leading the way. In the end, the Air Force offers to move the remaining families of Fort Repose out of their survivalist world, however, non accept.

Alas, Babylon shows how quickly the world could deteriorate if a Nuclear war started. Don't be alarmed if after you read it, you feel the need to go to Costco for bottled water and dry goods!

Lucifer's Hammer










If you're one to quickly oppose scientists, then Lucifer's Hammer might be just the post-apocalyptic book for you! Even after several reassurances by astronomer Tim Hamner that a new comet won't be crashing into the earth, people still begin hoarding and collecting food. Scientists realize that they have mis-tracked the trajectory of the comet, which eventually breaks into several smaller pieces and devastates the earth with its collision. The strike causes volcanoes, earthquakes, tsunamis and endless weeks of rain, which cause food and other survival necessities to be lost.

After the "Hammerfall", Hamner steps up from a quiet astronomer to a "determined survivor". He fights to keep he and his new wife, Eileen safe, in such a tumultuous world.

This book particularly got me thinking, just because we rely so much on what scientists tell us. What if they really did get it wrong?

Swan Song










Swan Song doesn't start out on a particularly happy note. The world is in turmoil, with the U.S. and USSR fighting all around the world. When all of the bombs are launched, the world is covered in mushroom shaped clouds. The novel follows several main characters, including a NYC bag lady called Sister Creep, Josh, aka Black Frankestein, a 7 foot tall wrestler with a heart the size of Texas, and Roland Croninger, an incredibly smart kid. Of course good vs. evil is prominent through out the novel. The bad lies within "The Man With the Scarlet Eye", who is a shape shifter, always up to no good. The very refreshing good however is a blonde girl named Swan, who possesses the ability to replenish the earth.

The book is pretty big (950 pages!), and if you can get through it, its probably the most terrifying post apocalyptic novel out there!
On the Beach










On the Beach" doesn't only qualify as one of the best Post-Apocalyptic novels, it qualifies as one of the most depressing. If you're looking for sunshine and rainbows, this isn't one you'll want to check out! The novel starts in the mid-sixties, after the air in the Northern Hemisphere has been polluted with nuclear fallout, killing all animal life, including humans. Air currents are slowly carrying the fallout to the southern hemisphere, where the only humans live, slowly succumbing to radiation poisoning. The Australian government makes arrangements for its citizens, providing free suicide pills and injections, allowing the people to avoid the slow and painful death of radiation poisoning. A submarine crew is dispatched to Seattle to respond to a signal, only to discover that the wind was blowing a coke bottle onto a telegraph machine.

The crew then realizes that the results of the nuclear war aren't dissipating, and that the people living in the south will die shortly. The characters in the novel then try to happily live out their final days, some returning to their hometowns, others taking classes and staying busy. In the end, the characters don't continue to run, but accept their death once the radiation reaches them. Probably the most depressing point in the book is when one Australian officer must explain to his wife how to euthanize their baby daughter and then kill herself, should the radiation reach them.

Like I said, not all sunshine and rainbows.

Z for Zachariah











"Z for Zachariah" starts by introducing the reader to Ann Burden, the protagonist, who has been living alone in a valley for over a year after a nuclear war, which has rendered all other places inhabitable. One day, Ann sees a stranger in a protective suit entering the valley, which changes her life forever. When he determines that the valley is safe, he takes off his suit and swims, but unfortunately, the water is contaminated by water being brought in from the outside. Once he is sick, Ann decides to try to help him.

Once he is better, he introduces himself as John R. Loomis, a scientist who was helping to design the protective suits underground when the war began. The sickness soon takes over his body completely, sending him into a coma, during which Ann continues to look after him.

He begins to recover and becomes highly possessive of Ann. One night, he attempts to rape her, and Ann decides she must leave the comfort of her home. She attempts to coexist in the valley with Loomis, but he makes it difficult, cutting her off from food and supplies, and even shooting her in the leg.

Eventually, Ann tells him she is taking the suit and the cart and leaving. She tells him that if he kills her, then he'll truly be alone. Ann sets of in the direction of birds, hoping to continue her life.

This novel is popular among young adults, because the main character is a strong willed young person. There are obviously sad portions, but there are also light, almost comical moments that keep you turning the page.

I Am Legend






If the only opinions you have of 'I am Legend' come from the horrible movie adaptation starring Will Smith, erase them all. Probably one of the greatest pieces of fiction ever written, much less in the "post-apocalyptic" category, "I am Legend" deals with the idea of becoming obsolete, which plagues so many people.

After a bacterial pandemic wipes out the entire human race, Robert Neville, the novel's main character, is the only human left in a world of vampires. Neville attempts to study and cure the disease, to which he became immune after a bite from a bat that was infected. Neville eventually discovers that the strain of bacteria is able to infect both the deceased and the living, leaving the living slightly human, although exhibiting signs of vampirism.

Robert comes across a woman who appears to be uninfected and captures her. He becomes suspicious of her after her reluctance to kill the vampires. She finally agrees to a blod test and just when Neville realizes she is infected, she knocks him out. She leaves him a note, sharying the adaptations that the infected have made towards sunlight and how they have even developed pills that keep their desires at bay. She tells him that they are attempting to rebuild society. Eventually the vampires come for him, and he is wounded and captured. When he knows death is near, Ruth comes to visit and gives him some pills that will make his death easier. He asks Ruth not to let society get heartless and after a kiss, she leaves. Neville finally realizes that he is the only survivor and is therefore feared by this new race. As he realizes that life with infection could be normal again one day, he chuckles before he dies, thinking "[I am] a new superstition entering the unassailable fortress of forever. I am legend."

Lonely Planet Afghanistan


Few places in the world today seem like less inviting tourist destinations than Afghanistan. Yet some NGOs are trying to lure adventurers and backpackers to the war-torn country as one possible way to stimulate local economic development.



It isn't easy going. Much of the country is an active conflict zone, and even those regions with relatively less violence have poor roads and minimal connections to the outside world. But the hope is that even a little backpacker foot traffic -- a few beds filled at guesthouses, a little income for guides and families providing meals to travelers -- might help bring money and more options to Afghan locals.

That was the thinking that inspired David James, a veteran British soldier who completed two tours of duty in Afghanistan and returned to the country in 2009 to found the nonprofit Mountain Unity. James says he became convinced that there would be no peace in the country until Afghans had other methods of generating income other than narcotics, corruption, and insurgency.

"Afghan entrepreneurs invest in opium because it gives them the best and safest return on their investment," he explains. "[But] the international community really, really needs to focus on helping Afghans find other ways to earn money.... I left the Army determined to return to Afghanistan and do something that would really help the Afghan people. I have to say tourism wasn't something that instantly sprang to mind, but when you really study it, it makes sense on many levels."

James isn't alone in his ambitions. In 2006, the Aga Khan Development Network (AKDN), a coalition of development organizations that operates across Central and South Asia and the Middle East, began to develop its own tourism-promotion plans for Afghanistan. Among other projects, it, in partnership with the German government's development agency, mapped scenic backpacking routes and produced a glossy, photo-filled brochure of recommended treks. Today AKDN continues to train guides in the country's central highlands and northeastern regions.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

How to transfer music from your iPod to iTunes/your computer.

Here's how you can re-locate your iTunes files !!


Basically, in order to transfer songs from the iPod to your computer, you have to undermine the design of the iPod.  Whenever you use a device in a way it's not designed, you increase the chances that it'll break.  That said, a lot of people have done this with no problems and it's a real life saver if your computer crashed and you lost your whole iTunes music library.

1. First you need to connect the iPod without iTunes doing the auto-sync. 

  • Hold down the Shift and Ctrl keys while connecting the iPod to your computer.
  • Don't let go of Shift+Ctrl.
  • If iTunes doesn't open automatically open after connecting the iPod, open iTunes.
  • Don't let go of Shift+Ctrl.
  • Wait until the iPod comes up in the Source list under DEVICES (it may take a while, but don't let go of Shift+Ctrl)
Important:  iTunes may pop up asking you to choose an existing library or to create a new one.  Click Create a new one so that it can just open.
Once it shows up, close iTunes.


2. Now find the songs on your iPod and copy them to a folder on your computer.

  • From the Desktop, go to My Computer and click once (or select/highlight) on the iPod, (usually drive E:, F: or G:).

  • Go to Tools > Folder Options.


  • Click View tab > scroll to Show Hidden Files and Folders and select it. Click OK.

  • Look in the iPod drive, and find a folder called iPod_Control and open it.


  • You'll see the Music folder. In it will be folders and files named F00, F01 and so on.


    Note: To see the original name of the song/file, just mouse over it.
    • If you need all the contents of the iPod on you computer, copy the whole Music folder. 
    • If you only need some of the files, look through the Fxx folders until you find the files you want and copy.
    • To copy:
      • Click once on the folder or hold down the Ctrl button and click once on each of the folders you want.
      • Go to the Edit menu and select copy.
      • Minimize all windows, right click over a blank area of the desktop, select New > Folder (name it Songs).
      • Right click over the Songs folder and select Paste.
        • Depending on the number of songs, this may take a long time to complete.


    Note: All the hidden files that are on your iPod are playable on iTunes once you transfer them to your computer's iTunes.

3. Now have iTunes import that folder to your music library
  • Open iTunes (if needed) and go to File > Add Folder to Library.

  • Select the folder you want to import and click OK.

    • This also may take awhile to complete.

Zolved Tips:

  • If you think you'll be doing this a lot, you should look into two things:
    1. Back up your iTunes library to an external hard drive periodically.
    2. Use an "iPod management software" other than iTunes.  See this comparison of iPod managers on Wikipedia.
  • You might want to set iTunes to manually manage your iPod.  This will mean you will have to drag-n-drop new stuff onto the iPod yourself.
  • Depending on which iPod model you have, the iPod may get very hot during the copying process.
Note: With every update Apple puts out (almost weekly it seems), something changes.  If something in this article didn't work, leave a comment (scroll down a bit) and tell us where the problem is.  This way we can do some tests and rewrite the article.  Thanks!


Guy Jumps Off Pier To Save Woman's Dog



Galeforce gusts blew this Maltese-shitz right off Brighton Pier in Victoria, Australia

Sue Drummond could only look on helplessly as her dog, ironically named Bi Bi, was swept into the angry waves.
Luckily, Raden Soemawinata was nearby and took action. Raden stripped down and dove into the bay to save helpless dog. Raden Soemawinata was actually on the pier to spread his grandmother’s ashes into the bay.